Affirmations for love and relationships
Relationship affirmations work best when they focus on you: the love you give, the qualities you bring and the kind of relationship you deserve. They should never try to control another person's choices.
So instead of "Rahul will come back to me", write "I attract a partner who loves and respects me deeply". You stay in your power, and your mind gets a clear picture of the relationship you want.
Gratitude for the love you already have
- Thank you Universe for the loving people in my life.
- I am grateful for my family, and I love spending time with them.
- I am thankful for friends who support and understand me.
Relationship goal achieved
- I am so happy now that I share my life with a partner who loves, respects and cherishes me.
- My partner and I are best friends, and we love spending quality time together.
- My home is full of laughter, peace and understanding.
- I have a warm, loving relationship with my parents.
Loving the actions that build relationships
- I love listening with my full attention.
- I express my love openly and kindly every day.
- I love myself the way I am, and I enjoy my own company.
- I am kind, loving and accepting, so I easily attract kind and loving people.
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Tips for writing them yourself
Start with yourself
Self-love affirmations are the foundation. The relationship you have with yourself sets the standard for every other one.
Describe the feeling, not the person
Focus on how the relationship feels (safe, playful, respected) rather than on a specific person's name.
New to this? Read our complete guide to writing affirmations.
Questions
Can I use affirmations to make a specific person love me?
We don't recommend it. Affirmations are about your own mindset and actions. Focus on the love you give and the relationship you deserve; that keeps you healthy whichever way things go.
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